PinnedMember-onlyWhen My ‘Dry January’ Became PermanentI quit drinking. I wasn’t an alcoholic, it wasn’t January, and it was a really long time ago, but the ubiquitous “Dry January” memes of late brought it to mind and I thought I’d contribute to the trending topic. I framed myself as quite the drinker back in my younger…Drinking7 min readDrinking7 min read
Feb 14Member-onlySharing Thoughts on ‘Second Chapters’ with Authority MagazineInvited by Authority Magazine to share some thoughts on the topic of “second chapters,” and never one to miss an opportunity to discuss hard-won insights or useful experiences — and the value of both — I accepted. It was a comprehensive and compelling discussion, and following the excerpt below is…Authority Magazine4 min readAuthority Magazine4 min read
Jan 26Member-onlyThe Continuing Long Shadow of Literary CancellationIt was exactly three years ago today that I was in New York appearing on the NPR show 1A to discuss American Dirt, the controversial novel covered in today’s New York Times article, The Long Shadow of ‘American Dirt’. I was there because the show’s producer had found two articles…American Dirt3 min readAmerican Dirt3 min read
Dec 17, 2022Member-onlyAnd Once Again, Covid Comes For ChristmasFlights were booked, connections were arranged; the split-second timing of “leaving there and getting here” was set, synchronized so everyone would be where they needed to be at the designated time and place. And, with that, holiday plans were activated and have yourself a merry little Christmas! Then key personnel…Covid6 min readCovid6 min read
Nov 24, 2022Member-onlyThe Gratitude Meme… Not Just For ThanksgivingIn case you hadn’t noticed, gratitude is pretty hip these days. All zeitgeisty and viral, posted daily on social media, in Twitter acknowledgements of thanks and grace; there are even Facebook groups devoted to the idea of expressing gratitude. It’s a beautiful thing. And because it’s the Internet, all of…6 min read6 min read
Jun 9, 2022Member-onlyI Once Owned a Gun…I once owned a gun. A real fancy, brand spankin’ new .357 Magnum. It was gifted to me on my 20th birthday by a boyfriend who happened to love guns. A lot. I say this because he regularly reveled in his arsenal. Took them out, showed them off, handled them…Guns6 min readGuns6 min read
May 6, 2022Member-onlyI Am Unapologetically Pro-Life. I Am Also Proudly Pro-ChoiceA contradiction? An oxymoron? A pander to roiling social debate? NO. Semantics, perhaps. But, in truth, a more complete view of what “pro-life” really means, despite its accepted, and conveniently limited, definition as “against abortion.” …Abortion3 min readAbortion3 min read
Apr 20, 2022Member-onlySenator Mallory McMorrow’s Vital Message: Indecency Will NOT Be ToleratedOn Tuesday, April 19, 2022, a largely unknown Democratic state senator from Michigan got up on the Senate floor of that great state and gave a passionate, outraged, spine-tingling speech that has now, as of this writing, been viewed almost 12 million times (click HERE to add to that total)…Senator Mallory Mcmorrow5 min readSenator Mallory Mcmorrow5 min read
Feb 3, 2022Member-onlyBanning Books and the ‘Stupidfying’ of AmericaLet’s face it: America is getting stupider. At least a good chunk of it is. And I know that’s not a word: stupider. Neither is “stupidfying.” But somehow the very idiocy of those fits the current, frothing state of American culture, which, in recent days, has been behaving badly at school board meetings, hissy-fitting against lifesaving vaccines…Banning Books5 min readBanning Books5 min read
Nov 9, 2021Member-onlyAging While Woman… How Dare WeI recently saw a picture of a very famous pop star (who shall remain nameless because this is not about shaming anyone), and I only knew it was her because the caption said so. Had it not, I might have guessed anyway but with fairly significant dollops of incredulity, because…Aging5 min readAging5 min read